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 this is a bad picture but this is where the birds lived!!!

One of my best friends, Stacey, works out of town a lot. Yesterday she happened to be in town and not working and I was going to be in Pocatello to get my hair cut so Beckham and I went to visit her and her parents. When we got there she and her Dad where outside nailing her roof of her house back together. Apparently a bird had built a nest and was living in there. After her Dad was done the little birds kept trying to get back to their nest. I guess her Dad didn't take the nest out and there was eggs in the nest. Stacey felt so bad and she had 2 little birds pecking at her house for the rest of the afternoon! I tried to take a picture but the birds flew away. Poor Stacey felt terrible. Good thing she is heading to NYC for the week. By the time she gets back the crazy birds should be gone!

Camping with the Winders

Every year the Winder's go camping over Memorial weekend. We didn't make it for the weekend but we made it up for the day. All I had to hear was dutch oven cooking and I was there. It was a rainy day but it didn't keep us from having a good time. Tom had his 4 wheelers out and the camp fire was going. Lots of laughs, good conversation and amazing food. There is nothing better than dutch oven potatoes. Love Them!!!

This is the best group of people to spend a Sunday afternoon with. Thanks for the good time Winder family!

Trip to Utah

Beckham's new hat from Park City! When he wears it, he acts like it's really heavy and he can't keep his head up... He is nuts! You can tell by the picture how much he likes to wear it.

This weekend has been a lot of fun and it is only Sunday morning. We decided at the last minute to go to Park City. Our room was completely decorated in Pink. Pink drapes, carpet, bedding, and wallpaper. I wish I would have taken a picture but some how I forgot. 

Once we got everything put away we went to the outlets and ended up spending most of our money on Beckham! It was fun picking out new little outfits for him (I am sure he could care less about them). Whenever I go to put his clothes on him I always ask him if he likes it or not. If he cries, I tell him I'm sorry he looks so silly, but if he laughs I know he likes it!

It was a little cold in Park City and windy so we didn't walk around too much. We headed back to SLC and had dinner and Chick Fila. I love that place. After that it was back to the pink room at the hotel. In the morning we had breakfast at Mimi's Cafe. This place is awesome. If you haven't had the chance to eat there, you need to. After breakfast we went to Nordstrom's so I could turn in my used makeup cases for a free lipstick. I had enough cases for 4 new lipsticks. I told the guy working at the counter that I had always wanted to wear red lipstick but I KNEW I couldn't pull it off. He reassured me that I could. He said "All you have to do is put it on and go out. You'll look great and everyone else will be wishing that they could wear read." I was sold, I got the Russian Red lipstick and a liner to match. 

When we got home I ran into the bathroom to try on my new fancy Russian Red lipstick. After I put it on I kinda thought I looked a little stupid, kinda grandma ish. But, I knew for sure I looked dumb when I walked out and Aaron just said, "NO!". I kept it on and had a good laugh, then Kalli came over and I had her try it on to. 

I just want the guy at the MAC counter to know that I loved how special he made me feel and I truly believed for a few hours I could pull off the Russian Red, but this dream must come to a rest (unless I am the only one home). Don't get me wrong, I will probably try to wear it again at some point but all I need to do is look at this picture and know I shouldn't wear it.   

Bath time to bed time

Beckham is getting so big. He is now falling asleep on his own. It takes him awhile but once he finally falls asleep he is out cold. I am trying to get him into a routine so he can realize when it is time to go to bed. Tonight it all started with his bath. He loves to take baths. I don't have anything to put him in so it's just him and the big tub. He usually slides all over the place and it's all I can do to keep his head above the water. He is a slippery little sucker when he is all wet but so far no accidents. Once he is out of the tub it is story time. He will sit and listen while I read to him. Usually he will laugh and smile. I think he only does it because he knows it is bed time and if he is being cute and funny I'll stay in the room longer and hang out with him. He is a smart kid!! 

I love you so much Beckham. you are such a good baby and your Dad and I are so lucky to have you as our son. I look forward to all the good times we are going to have while you grow up!

magical pill

The other day Aaron and I were driving and I said to him, "Hey just so you know I signed us up to get the Ensign". He looked at me like I was out of control. I replied, "I think it will be good for us, don't you?".  Still looking at me like I was a bit of a freak Aaron said, "I don't believe you!".  I sat there for a minute and I finally realized he was thinking I had ordered a free 30 day trial of Enzyte!!!! I started to laugh so hard I almost peed my pants. All though both things will help you grow, I was only looking for the one spiritually.  I think we have been watching a little too much late night TV!

Wasted Weekend

It was the warmest weekend we have had all year and I should have been outside tanning my pasty white legs, instead we spent it being responsible adults. We have been trying to finish our basement since December and we thought it would be done by now only Beckham came a little early and our lives were flipped upside down for awhile. We are having the guy come next week to hang sheet rock and frame closets so we have to get a few more things taken care of before he comes. On Friday Aaron had to work in the morning but once he got home he headed for the basement to finish the electrical. Aaron's parents came over to help and they were here until 9:00 pm. We couldn't have done it without them.

I have been tired because I have decided it is time Beckham goes to sleep by himself and he is now in his own crib. He is doing good but I am sleeping in the bed in his room so I can hear him and he is loud. I know some people have restless leg syndrome, I think he has restless body syndrome. He is all over the place and grunts non stop! He falls asleep good, he usually only has to cry for 15 minutes then he is asleep. I think it is more me that is having a hard time with him in the crib. I miss him sleeping next to me and keeping me warm. 

Saturday, first thing I did was go out and mow the lawn. It wouldn't have been so bad but we have a push mower and a big lawn. Never mind the fact that I am extremely out of shape. When I got back inside, Aaron headed back downstairs to work on the basement. When he finished we had to go and clean the medical office. We can usually go pretty fast when we clean but since Beckham came into our lives it is a little different. I end up packing him the whole time and that 15 pounds of dead weight is a little hard to maneuver. By the time that was done we went to Shelley to see if his folks needed help in their garden. By the time we got home I was wiped out. That is a lot of action and activity for a stay at home mom.  Of course the night I am most tired Beckham decides to be extremely restless. We were up most the night, then church at 9:00. Once we got home I wanted to go out and enjoy the nice weather but for my sanity I took a long nap instead. The day is not over so hopefully we can get a nice walk in as a family!

I guess I have learned another life lesson. Being an adult is not always about what you want to do, it's SOMETIMES about what you have to do. Yes, I am 31 and it has taken me this long to learn that. I am hoping that next weekend Aaron and I party it up. He has a 4 day weekend and I plan on taking full advantage of it. (Sorry no pics... my sister borrowed my camera)

A day at a time

So, Today was the first day the weather has been nice. It is a little chilly but not bad. I decided I was going to drop Beckham off at his Grandma's house and start my days of running. Soon after I decided this my sister stopped by at brought Beckham some cute new outfits and after walking her out to her car I realized it was colder than I thought. I quickly went inside and decided to nap with Beckham instead! 

After waking up I felt sluggish and gross. I packed up Beckham and headed to the park for a walk. I have never been much of a walker. I get bored easy and want to stop. So, I thought I might as well try running and see what happens. Keep in mind I have Beckham in a huge Graco stroller, the kind you set the car seat in. Instantly my legs feel heavier than ever and after about 30 seconds my throat starts burning. I probably ran less then a quarter mile and stopped. I have never felt so out of shape in my whole life. It was crazy. 

Now my new goal in fitness is to get out out everyday and try to run a little bit more than I did last time, which shouldn't be too hard! Tomorrow I will walk after work with the little man and go from there! 

A day at a time!

2 months

                                                      Beckham flashing his man boobs
                                                  his lushes thighs and cute round belly!

Beckham is now 2 months old. He went into the doctor yesterday for his check up and shots. He hated every minute of it. The Dr. is weird... The first time we saw him he did this little joke, he counted Beckham's toes and counted to 11. I gave him a courtesy laugh. This time when he did it again, I refused to even acknowledge him, I can only laugh at someone's lame joke once!

Beckham is now 14.5 pounds which is in the 95% and is 22.5 inches which is in the 30%. So our little Beckham can now be our BIG "HAM". He is our little butter ball and we love him so much. 

Mother's Day

This was my first official Mother's Day. My day started off when Beckham woke up at 3:00 am screaming! This kid never screams at night. When he's hungry he will grunt until I hear him and he doesn't even wake up to eat. I have no idea what was wrong, but Aaron got up with him and let me sleep. Aaron's the best!

When we all woke up we packed up the car and headed to Twin Falls to spend the day with my Mom. She is the best Mom in the world. She would do anything for us kids and she has done everything for us. 

It's always a good time when the family gets together. We played garage band (I think that's what it's called) on the Wii, ate dinner, went to Shoshone Falls and watched the season finale of The Amazing Race. 

I was really upset with the outcome of the Race. I wanted the Mother, son team to win. The Brother and Sister did not need the money. I mean, come on, they are Harvard Law Grads. Lets give it to the underdog... Someone who needs the cash. 

I'm officially a Mom

My little sister Kalli had a softball tournament in town today to see if her team could go to state. It is her senior year and she is an awesome catcher. She has been a catcher on the varsity team since her Freshman year. Our whole family is so proud of her. Anyway, today they won the game so they could go to state! I start to cry a little, but I noticed the other day at her game that my hormones are a little wacky. She threw a girl out at second base and I started to cry. I was so proud of her. But come on, CRY. I am the girl with little to no emotions. I was fortunate enough to be wearing sun glasses so no one knew how lame I was. This Mom thing really takes a toll on you.

Some other signs I have that I am officially a Mom. I fall asleep while watching T.V. at 7:00 pm. My heels are cracked, I rock back and forth while I am standing and last but not least I am blogging! BRING ON MOTHER'S DAY...

The New Baby Sitter

Is this bad... My sister in-law Lindsey lent me her swing and it has been the best thing that has happened to me in weeks. I try not to put Beckham in it all the time but when he is fussy and I am busy I can just put him in there and he loves it. He doesn't always fall asleep but when he does it's amazing! Sometimes I feel a little guilty for leaving him in there. I figure he won't remember and if he hated he would let me know. I only have one question, how long do the batteries last?

Thank you Lindsey, I owe you big time!

Enough is Enough

I am now fully going to commit myself to getting back into shape! I have been saying I was going to start running again for 2 weeks now and yet I have not logged any miles. I keep using the excuse of just having a baby but I think the time is up. I will commit myself to running a mile tomorrow. I figure if I just take it a day at a time I won't get too overwhelmed. I am wanting to do a race at the end of June, To Bone and Back. It's a 8 man relay, each leg is 5 miles. So I do have a goal, lets see if I can reach it. 

I would also like to give up drinking soda. I have an amazing little sister, Kristen, She gave up smoking cold turkey. I keep telling myself, if Kristen can do it so can I! So we will see. I am hoping by posting it on my blog, I will stick to it. I want to be a good example to Beckham and want to have an active, healthy family. 

Tomorrow is day number one and I can do it. Why else do I subscribe to runner's magazine, to collect dust? I keep thinking to myself, I would rather be skinny than drink soda or eat fast food. Every time I think I want a soda I will tell myself that and maybe do a couple of lunges, Well at least i'll put the soda down and reach for a glass of water!

The Little Man

Now that Aaron and I have started our family, it is now time to start our blog. I say OUR blog but really Aaron could care less and probably thinks it's a little silly. I am hoping that I will be able to get a lot of advice about being a mom from the vets out there. Every day I learn something new... 

1. How not to get peed on when changing his diaper (it is still a little tricky but I am getting better)

2. Even though he doesn't get out much it's okay to change him out of his PJ's                                   3. it's not  a bad thing to have my house changed into a nursery ( I have diapers in every room, a swing in my living room, and bottles all over and I am breast feeding!)

4. Most important thing is, the little man is in charge! 

It has been a fun and rewarding adventure since Beckham was born. He had us on our toes from the beginning. After a long hard week of having him in the NICU we were able to bring him home. We are now at week 7 and couldn't be happier. He is a happy baby. Now if I can just learn how to get him to sleep without rocking him. Like I said he is in charge. 

So, welcome home Beckham! Your Dad and I love you very much and we look forward to all the good times that are ahead of us. Just remember we are new at this and we hope we don't screw up too bad!!!